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Scorpio Dating tip #4 : Show Some Restraint to lure Scorpio into a Chase

Scorpio Dating tip #4 : Show Some Restraint to lure Scorpio into a Chase


More Scorpio Insight: Scorpios are an aggressive zodiac breed. Even the women like to pursue prey rather than act coquettish. So, being aloof can lure a Scorpio date because they get to be the hunter. (This is why Scorpio can often become so obsesessed with Aquarius).

Despite being an innate pursuer, Scorpio is not necessarily an initiator when it come to dating, however. Because, like Taurus, they need reassurance before putting their heart on the line, a Scorpio date may wait for a love interest to flirt, show interest and initiate a connection. THEN, SCORPIO WILL ESCALATE IT.  (This is the true Scorpio-style).

To get a Scorpio to chase, you might have to ironically chase a little first.

Then, and only then, is the supreme time to fall back into aloof demeanor.

Act like you’re not interested before Scorpio has the time to invest and a Scorpio will feel slighted. Once invested… Scorpio locks on their romantic interest like …no, not a missile, but  a vice. Then, they can’t help but chase the target of their affections.

On some occasions, a Scorpio man (or even a Scorpio woman) may chase a love interest without provocation — but only if Scorpio feels so smitten and bold that they can’t resist and it’s worth risking a wounded heart. These occasions are rare.

In a relationship, balance aloofness with devotion. When things cool down, a little restraint can trigger Scorpio’s innate need to secure their “possession.” Yep, that would be you.

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Synthia L. Rose

Synthia L. Rose is a 9th house Scorpio with a four-planet stellium in Sagittarius. She has more than 10 years of experience as a professional journalist and six years of experience as a professional blogger. An ardent student of astrology, she has studied intuitive astrology since 2008. Synthia is obsessed with penning blogs that examine Scorpio's mystique, Plutonic personalities and the risqué, taboo 8th house life.